You see a lot written in forums and elsewhere about the “submissive journey”, and I have spoken before about the fact that people’s boundaries do shift over time. Less attention is given to the fact that we dommes also grow and change and yes, even like to push our own boundaries.
I’ve grown in a lot of ways since I started “dating” as a domme. I like things now that I would never have imagined myself even trying when I started. And one of those things is the making of slave contracts. I always understood that for people who get into such things the writing of the contract itself is an act of extended foreplay. What I didn’t know back in the day was that I would be one of those people.
Which doesn’t mean I enjoy sitting around writing contracts for boys who fail to follow through. And y’all would not believe the number of males who’ll go through the bdsm slave contract writing process, no doubt wanking over it the entire time, only to disappear when the time comes for them to DO any of it. Making plans with someone and then having them pfft! disappear is no more fun for a dominant than it is for a submissive. Because of this I’ll only go through the process with a slave-prospect who has some skin in the game. And yes, that means tribute.
But I do have a couple of sample contracts that I like to share. For potential slaves this gives you an idea of how my mind works and the things I’m likely to expect from you as my slave. And for other dommes this may be used as a starting point for your own contract.
This sample contract is designed with “cock control” in mind. It’s focused on controlling a slave’s masturbation & making him work for his orgasms. But it’s also designed as a tool to help Mistress mold the slave into a better servant and more worthwhile member of society. And the number of points and dollar amounts can easily be changed to make the contract less (or more) strict. Now without any further ado here it is..
SAMPLE COCK CONTROL CONTRACT
Length of contract: 6 weeks
Terms: Orgasms will cost 200 points each, PLUS 10 points for every minute spent touching Mistress’s rightful property, the slave’s cock. (So for instance stroking for 5 minutes with an orgasm at the end = 250 points.) The slave will begin each week with 100 points. If slave meets his basic obligations this will guarantee he earns at least one orgasm for the week. Any unspent points will be carried over to the next week.
Obligations:
The slave is to message Mistress twice a day, once in the morning and once in the evening. The slave will earn 10 points per day (5 points per message) for making these daily required check-ins.
The slave is to pay a training tithe of $$ per week, which will also count toward his total points at the standard rate.
The slave is to perform edging on command for Mistress’s entertainment. The minutes of stroking used in this edging WILL cost points, it is stroking after all, but only at the rate of 1 point per minute ordered. Mistress also hereby promises not to order more than 6 edging sessions/30 minutes total in any one day, unless slave requests more. (So the maximum points slave might be forced to spend on edging = 210 points per week)
The slave is required to send a message in advance BEGGING to be allowed to cum whenever he has accumulated enough points and wishes to spend them on a release. Mistress may, at her discretion, choose to reduce (or raise) the cost of wanking based on how well this begging pleases her.
The slave is likewise required to send Mistress a written thank you after any time he’s been allowed to cum. Bonus points will be awarded – or subtracted! – at Mistress’s discretion for how well this message pleases her. An accompanying gift is strongly encouraged.
Oh, and by the way – points will be deducted for begging to be allowed to cum before you’ve earned it!
Penalties
Any orgasm slave has without prior authorization from Mistress will cost 10x the usual number of points PLUS an additional $$$ orgasm penalty
Failure to make his required daily check-ins for any circumstance other than life-threatening emergency will cost 50 points per missed check-in/100 points per day.
Additional points will be deducted for other infractions or behaviors Mistress wishes to curb, including begging for orgasms before they’ve been earned, whining about not being allowed to cum, shirking or procrastinating on tasks Mistress has ordered, and anything else She may be displeased with.
Additional points may be earned by:
60 points for doing an hour’s worth of work to directly benefit Mistress. This might include e.g. landscape maintenance, metal or woodworking, or whatever other skills you have that Mistress wishes to draw on.
30-120 points for doing an hour’s worth of work toward some other worthy & Mistress-approved goal, such as studying massage or cooking or volunteering for a local charity.
2 points for every $1 slave spends directly on Mistress, including all tributes, gifts and tithes.
1 point for every $1 spent not directly on Mistress but at her behest, e.g. on buying a cock cage or other items of gear which will be used by the slave himself.
Points may be awarded for performing other more intimate training tasks, such as for instance wearing his cock-cage or a butt plug for an assigned amount of time for “breaking in” purposes.
Bonus points will also be awarded at Mistress’s discretion when slave keeps her entertained with his humiliation, extra letters of devotion, and so on.
This is not an exhaustive list; other methods of earning points (and of losing them!) may be added at Mistress’s discretion.
Additional Terms:
Slave will signify his acceptance of these contract terms by the submission of an initial $$$ tribute, which includes his first week’s training tithe of $$ plus a $$$ ‘signing fee’. This tribute will count toward his first week’s points at the usual rate. After slave has formally accepted this contract by the offering of this tribute he will be given Mistress’s private contact info for the purposes of doing his daily check-ins, having Mistress tease & command him, and generally keeping in touch. This contract is designed to be in effect for 6 weeks. If Mistress & slave both choose it, the contract may be extended (with any agreed-upon modifications) for a longer period. In the event that this contract is extended with no lapse there will be no additional ‘signing fee’. The slave may also choose to end the contract early by paying a one-time $$$ buy-out fee. If slave chooses to end the contract, either with an early buy-out or through letting the contract run its course, any subsequent (but non-consecutive) contracts will include a new signing fee.
